It is sweet, loving and memorable, it’s one of the supernatural feelings which human beings experience by letting it out unto that one person they are attracted to physically, mentally, morally and most importantly emotionally; yet it is natural. The chemistry is undeniable and the connection makes you blind throughout the duration. Very sickening and at the same time extraordinary, of which you don’t wish to get well hence you feel your spouse is the right match. It is Love.
It can be seen as true and best when the spouses are both drunk in love. Promises and commitments are been made on the platter of selflessness, in other to show that you truly care for each other and willing to do more. Friends and crush are been forgotten or left behind just for you to be with that one man/woman you cherish so much with no excuse. It seems you can no more survive on planet earth without him/her.
Certain possible mismatched attributes, behaviours and characters can be condoled, subdued or managed just for the sake of love. Also, such chronic bad behaviours can resurface and might cause a breach to the love and affection; thereby putting the relationship to a pause or total stop.
Here Are Some Possible Causes Of Breakups In Relationships:
•Cheating: So you have broken the most sacred of vows (if you are married) and, married or not, probably broken the heart of your significant other, along with his or her trust. That’s really a hard thing to rebuild, but it can be done. The trick is to avoid this pitfall in the first place. Give up even the idea of sex with other people completely, and your mate will become far more attractive.
•Misdirected Anger: How many times have you had a lousy day at work and come home in a bad mood? Guess what: That isn’t fair, and it’s going to damage your relationship. Coming home and bringing a bunch of negative energy inside with you can only make things ugly. You can get the soothing you need and have your mood changed in a few moments by just asking for a hug and saying, “Honey, I’ve had a rotten day.”
•Withholding Affection and Attention: When you are not affectionate with the person who loves you, he or she is eventually going to stop asking for affection. After being turned down enough times, we become too embarrassed to ask. I’m not talking about sex—just attention, like hand holding or cuddling on the couch. If you’d like more intimacy in your relationship, this is the place to start, slowly and sweetly.
•Lying: Really, why? So you don’t look bad or have to admit to doing something your other half doesn’t approve of? Look, it only becomes worse if you lie about it. Give up dishonesty, and your relationship can change very quickly. Keep at it, and your mate will lose all trust in you and your partnership. If you want to have a true and long lasting relationship, keep to the simple rule ‘Never Lie’. No matter how hurtful or bad it may look or sound, say it as true as it is. It can only hurt for the moment, but won’t break the relationship because of your honest quality.
•Poor Communication: In a relationship, silence is never golden. The more you talk, the better you will feel. Communication is the single most important thing in a relationship, bar none. If you do not have good communication, you cannot have a good relationship, plain and simple. So sit down over a cup of coffee and use your words. You’ll get a lot more out of it than you think.
•Alcoholism: To men and women, it makes you irresponsible, unreasonable and useless. Alcoholism creates the worst impression of your personality and might possibly lead to calling it a quit in a relationship situation. You don’t beat your wife or girlfriend, but alcohol can possibly lead you into doing so and you end up in regrets. To the women, it occurs so disgusting to be a drunk, a chronic smoker or a drug addict; you are as good as worthless.
•Third Party: This is the serpent in the lovely sacred garden of Eden. You always relay your love life to him/her without knowing their true mindset and they end up giving you advice upon advice whether positive or negative. When another flaw is been encountered based on the advice they gave you, you still fall back to them for more misconceptions ‘Are You Alright At All?”. They make you believe they are the best counsellors and have your happiness at heart; check very well no one dare intrudes into their affairs.
•Pride: A feeling of self-respect and personal worth. When you always see yourself as too important in the relationship and continually recalling your personality and values, thereby making your spouse worthless. When you make him/her feel of lower class, the connection will automatically fail; then both will be left with no option than to look for their class.
•Lack Of Respect: Lack of respect means lack of love, lack of value and lack of freedom. Everyone deserves respect for respect they say, is reciprocal. Most especially, men deserves all respect for it is supernaturally and socio-culturally so. And on the other hand, women always want to be given that little piece of respect so as to make them feel like the queen of the empire.
•Lack Of Trust: Even if you are the Governor of a town, city or state, once you give your spouse the reason to lack trust in your affairs, the union shivers, shrinks and may die a natural death if trust is not reaffirmed.